Join us for the book signing of Finding Our Fire

The Fire is Coming!
July 22 4-7PM

Join us for the book signing of Finding Our Fire
at Dancing Moon Book & Gifts store.
( 1840 Wake Forest Rd.Raleigh, North Carolina 27608 )
With a presentation about the creation of the book
by Martin Brossman
Limited space, come early.
Light refreshments & door prizes!
Join us!

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Bookstore's website direcitons

Book stores phone number: Phone: (919) 833-8081

More about the book

The Men's Inquiry:

http://www.themensinquiry.com/

The book will also be released to be ordered on-line at the same date.

News brief published in Natural Awakning (RTP issue)

Book Signing Event Will Present Back Story of “Finding Our Fire”
On Sunday, July 22 from 4pm to 7 pm, Dancing Moon bookstore will host a special book signing event for Raleigh author Martin Brossman who will be introducing his work, “ Finding Our Fire: Enhancing Men’s Connection to Heart, Passion & Strength.” Based on over a decade of facilitating The Men’s Inquiry which Brossman founded, the book incorporates contributed insights from over 100 men who responded to the questions gleaned from numerous Inquiry meetings. Brossman will give a presentation on how the book was created, and there will be light refreshments and door prizes.“My intention is for the book to provide a new window into the minds of men for both male and female readers.” Brossman said. “It can be read simply for entertainment and understanding, or it can serve as a reference to help others facilitate Inquiry meetings similar to our model. Most of all, it is a rare expression of the sincere voice of men speaking honestly on issues that affect us all.”

Dancing Moon bookstore is located at 1840 Wake Forest Rd., Raleigh NC 27608.For more information on “Finding Our Fire” go to www.themensinquiry.com.
Martin Brossman is a success coach and trainer. He can be reached at 919-847-4757 or e-mail: martin@coachingsupport.com.

From the Men's Inquiry Blog: http://toinquire.blogspot.com/

Martin presents at Women on The Move 5-24-2007

Women on The Move Breakfast Thursday, May 24th, 2007 8:00-9:00 AM Featuring Martin Brossman - Talk called: What's New about Men That Women Want to know. Free for Cardinal Club members, $10.00 ++ for guest, reservations are required call 834-8829 and ask to make a reservation for the Women on The Move Breakfast this Thursday. Also, Would you like a chance to get beyond business card exchanges and build solid relationships with women who face the same challenges as you? Bring Information with you about your line of work and share it through our Resource table. Reservations, Please. Our gatherings are premier networking events!

For directions go to the Cardinal Club web site: http://www.cardinal-club.com/

The Women's Inquiry web site: http://www.thewomensinquiry.com/
The Men's Inquiry web site: http://www.themensinquiry.com/

Interview by Men's Health Magazine - Why Raleigh is in the top places for women to meet single men.

Yesterday (April 27th - 2007) Martin Brossman was interviewed by Men's Health Magazine - Why Raleigh is in the top 10 places for women to meet single men in the US.

"We have the combination of the high tech, the universities -- the sharp minds -- and the southern hospitality of the region," says Martin Brossman in Raleigh."

See full article by: Brittany Risher & Kasia Galazka called:
"Women, Here's the Best Place to Find a Man"
(click on the title to see the full article).

The home page of this (Men's Inquiry) blog is: http://toinquire.blogspot.com/

TV experience

The reality TV show

Martin Brossman will and Joeph will be guest "experts" on the reality show "Wife Swapping" . Considered one of the "more compassionate" reality shows. It was to help with a man that does not stand up for himself in any way. Details to follow after the filming. I can only say that it may occur, not when or where at this time.

"Wife Swap, the critically-acclaimed unscripted reality show that takes us into the intimate heart of the American family home, revealing the extraordinarily different ways families live their lives, is in its third season on MONDAYS (8:00-9:00 p.m., ET) on the ABC Television Network."

Update: they canceled the shooting due to a family emergency.. maybe next time!




The home page of this (Men's Inquiry) blog is: http://toinquire.blogspot.com/

Today Martin Brossman Ron Hering Mission of Service Award!

This is a photo of the Ron Hering Mission of Service Award recived by Martin Brossman today.

Today Martin Brossman Ron Hering Mission of Service Award! At a celebration of the ManKind Project Martin was awarded the Ron Hering Mission of Service Award by a group of men including friends and family. Including his wife Barbara Carr Brossman ( www.NaturesFace.com ) and Janet Bauer that is part of the Women's Inquiry team (her business web site is: www.whatsgreataboutyou.com ) . Martin created and lead the Men's Inquiry since 1996 ( www.themensinquiry.com ) and created the Women's Inquiry about 5 years ago ( www.thewomensinquiry.com ).

To learn more more about the Ron Hering Mission of Service Award that Martin received see the earlier blog click here

The home page of this (Men's Inquiry) blog is: http://toinquire.blogspot.com/

Interviewed on Nicki & Beth in the Morning

Martin Brossman was interviewed today about Men During Divorce on the Nicki & Beth Morning show as part of their week-long special focusing on "Male Viewpoint" (MVP). About the show: "The Nicki & Beth Morning Show is the only all syndicated female hosted morning show in America. The program is hosted by Nicki Morse (formerly of Sunny 93.9's "Bob & Nicki Morning Show" & television reporter for NBC 17 (both in Raleigh) and numerous large market morning hosting positions in Atlanta, Indianapolis, Richmond and more; and, Beth Morris, unLicensed therapist and acclaimed storyteller.

Now moving to a new location to be announced soon.

Martin Brossman was a regular guest on the Tuesday Show।
Click here to here the show on "Single Mother's Raising Sons"

To learn about Nicki Morse radio experience go to: http://nickimorse.voice123.com/

And to find out about the show Nicki & Beth call Beth Morris at (919) 818-6462

From The Men's Inquiry Blog: http://toinquire.blogspot.com/

Black Men Doing Their Part in Their Community!

I have been conducting "The Men's Inquiry" for more than 10 years, providing a forum for men to discuss issues of importance to men One of the shortcomings to me of this "men's work" is that it has been made up of mostly white men and I wanted to see more diversity. It was with great humility and joy that I learned of Leroy McIntire and his work. This week, Thursday night, January 25, I drove from Raleigh to Laurinburg (100 + miles) to meet with Leroy and talk with a group of African American men who he brought together as a men's discussion team.

I met with some fine men in Laurinburg and hope they gained as much value from the interaction as I did. We shared the unique challenges of men but also the unique challenges of the White and Black cultures. My perception has been that the African American culture is characterized by very strong women who are often the core of the family and the strong role of the men is not always as clear. As we appreciate our history as a nation, we realize that there are many reasons for this condition.

I have heard many times from African American men, "I am black so what value would I have as a father except providing money." This attitude forces many young black boys to take on the 'father role' in their own family. Becoming the little man in the house can produce resentment towards older men. In addition many Black women sometimes don't have a lot of trust in the ability of a black man to provide for his family, take a leadership role, and be present as a father, due to many reasons. This is a problem for all of us and this creates a challenge for the men who truly want to take back their communities, be responsible for their families and be the leaders and the fathers they are meant to be. When joining together they are faced with simple resistance and suspicion "Why are the black men getting together without any women--What are they up to." The men I talked with were not a part of the problems--they were about realistic solutions.

What can be done to overcome the perceived resistance and suspicion? These men pointed out that more and more African American women are ready to support and give more trust to men having seen how the absence of strong fathers can help fill our prisons with their sons. These men are insightful and understand they have to address the unique situations in their own community and earn the community trust before they are able to move forward. They also have the courage to take the task on. I was so honored that they trusted me to partner with them in our mission to help men be better fathers, leaders, and partner; that I had to write this note today.

I look forward to the next time they allow me to learn with them in the pursuit of their calling. Please take a moment to see the website and if you see something you could do to help, please offer it! When I got to know Leroy he quickly became one of my hero's now I have 5 more men on the same path in Laurinburge NC. I want to publicly thank them for what they are taking on.

For when boys don't have enough father and mentoring support they tend to act out in society and that is a cost to all of us!

M.E.L.O's Web site: http://www.lmcidomain.com/

Thanks,
Martin Brossman

From the Men's Inquiry blog: http://toinquire.blogspot.com/

What did you learn in 2006 what are you committed to creating in 2007?

What did you learn in 2006 what are you committed to creating in 2007?
What have you gained out of The Men's Inquiry or 'Men's Work' in general?
What is the value you gained from healthy male friends?
What did you learn in 2006 and what are you going to take on in 2007?
How could you let people support you in your 2007 goals?
Either post a reply to this note or email me with the subject line. If you have a web site related to your goals post it!

Also, I just want to share a photo that I took in Washington DC while going down town to see the Christmas decorations (http://www.flickr.com/photos/martinbrossman/335780124/) :

The flag is at half staff for Former Presidents Gerald Ford death and I remember how Jimmy Carter stated that he and Ford had become the best of friends. I realize that 2006 marks Jimmy Carter loosing a dear male friend that he had the courage to talk about. That is a part of life as well.

I want to thank you all for the contribution you have made in my life and tell you how YOU inspire me! To all you men out their that have learned what emotional courage is thank you for living it!

Also, thanks to all that contributed by buying products and service to support The Men's & Women's Inquiry. Your effort was greatly appreciated!

Be well!

Martin Brossman

From the Men's Inquiry Blog: http://toinquire.blogspot.com/

Happy Holidays, Happy New Year &Thanks for all the support in 2006!

A Humorous Holiday Photo made by Martin Brossman

Other ways to support The Men's & Women's Inquiry

The CD: Men's of Our Word:
http://www.toinquire.com/liveinquiry.htm

Any of the products:

Martin's Photos and Art:
http://www.cafepress.com/brossman/1950965

Finding Our Fire- book products:
http://www.cafepress.com/brossman/1175883

Calender:
http://www.cafepress.com/brossman.46439294

Humor:
http://www.cafepress.com/brossman/1175380

Thanks for all the support in 2006!
Martin Brossman
http://www.themensinquiry.com/
http://www.thewomensinquiry.com/

Martin Brossman nominated for Ron Hering Awards

Today November 30th 2006, Martin Brossman nominated for the Ron Hering Awards for the Greater Carolina's ( including Virginia, North Carolina, South Carolina ):

Ron Hering Mission of Service Awards Protocol :

History:
In 1999, MKP began recognizing men and teams of men (i.e. I-group) who were actively demonstrating living a life in mission. Specifically this mission was in service to the world – NOT to MKP. The award was named after the late Ron Hering, one of the three founders of the MKP. Typically these awards were announced and presented at the mid-year conference.

The nomination document:

From: Greater Carolina Center of MKPI
Re: Nominee for 2006 Hering Mission of Service Award
Date: November 30, 2006

1. Nominee = Martin W. Brossman

2. Greater Carolina's Center

3. Martin@CoachingSupport.com Martin W. Brossman
6260-100 Glenwood Ave., Suite 251
Raleigh, North Carolina 27612 NC USA

4. Martin Brossman has selflessly served the men’s movement for over ten years in numerous ways. In addition to his active involvement in MKPI and his I-Group, Martin served on the Leadership Council of the Triangle Men’s Center at a critical time in its history and contributed to the survival and continued existence of this resource for local men. In addition, he is the founder and continuing convener of The Men’s Inquiry, an open monthly dialogue for men committed to deep, authentic exploration of masculine identity and men’s issues. He has opened the Inquiry not only to local men, but to men nationally through his use of the phone bridge and an Internet website, toinquire.com. The on-line Men’s Inquiry includes men from around the world exploring monthly issues about our lives. Martin’s articles on men’s issues have been published in several on-line men’s journals. He was a key player in the creation of the first community-wide forum on father issues with over 400 participants. His commitment to appreciating diversity has led him to seek alliances with different groups, including assisting churches in developing their men’s work. In this vein, Martin assisted an African-American North Carolina man to create a black Christian men’s group based on his Men’s Inquiry principles. Martin has volunteered to speak to numerous groups on The ManKind Project and men’s work, including a presentation for women’s groups called “What’s New About Men That Women Want to Know,” where he shares his own experience of the value of men’s work. Martin created an active blog called “Single Mothers Raising Sons” to support the involvement of men in our community in the raising of boys who are living with single mothers. Five years ago Martin also created a complementary once-a-month Women’s Inquiry in his home. As a result of the success of the Men’s Inquiry and to extend its impact into the world, Martin has also compiled an extensive collection of male voices on critical issues of concern to men soon to be published in both CD and print formats, entitled Finding Our Fire: Enhancing Men’s Connection to Heart, Passion & Strength, with a portion of the proceeds going to benefit the Triangle Men’s Center and referencing MKP as a resource for men.

5. I hereby grant my permission to have this information made public at the awards ceremony. –Martin W. Brossman

6. (Photo attached)

7. BIO: Martin Brossman is an accomplished Success coach, author and trainer, and a Certified Practitioner in Neuro-Linguistic Programming. He is a graduate of St. Andrews College and has over eighteen years of professional experience including seven years with IBM Customer Service and the creation of two successful small businesses. He is the author of Finding Our Fire: Enhancing Men’s Connection to Heart, Passion & Strength.

8. Mission Statement:

My mission is supporting people in living lives they love--lives so filled with meaning and fulfillment that on their death bed they are are moved to tears by the beautiful life they lived. My life is committed to contributing to a world that works for all us.

9. Yes, our community is joyfully sponsoring Martin to come to Glen Ivy to accept his award in person in February.

"It is a big honor for me to receive this and I want to thank all of the men and women that have supported this with their courage" Martin Brossman